Weekend of Adventure

The Goddess has taken off for New York. She's having a weekend in the big city with her sister. I'm here with the lizardlings till Sunday night. So far we've played dollies, built with Legos, watched Mario Bros. cartoons and now MK is making me wooden food from her play kitchen. I certainly won't be bored this weekend.

I sometimes have a hard time balancing my attention between the two little ones. MK demands a great deal of attention and interaction. She's a very communicative almost-3 year old. When the Turkey was that age our only focus was on him, so it's difficult to think about how much individual attention he got versus what MK gets. Turkey also requires a lot of attention, but he's 6 so he is much more able to entertain himself. His imagination is tremendous and the bulk of his play is dressing up and pretending to be various characters. He loves to make costumes. Right now, there's a storm trooper tumbling through the living room, complete with paper helmet and a white t-shirt with storm trooper armor drawn on.

One thing that I'm extremely proud of with regard to our parenting is that we actually play with them. My parents never played with my Star Wars figures with me, or built Legos. We participate completely in their play; we dress up, play action figures and create fantasy worlds to explore together. Don't get me wrong, my parents didn't neglect me. We read constantly and discussed the world around us at great lengths. My curious questions were met with, "let's go look it up in the encyclopedia". I would wrassle with my dad and we went to the go-carts almost every Friday night. But actual play was left for me to do by myself.

Now I've got to go and play with the lizardlings. MK is boogie-ing to the new Depeche Mode album. I think it's time for dance party!